# Francesca Hogi - How to Unlock Your Flirting Superpowers (Highlights)  ## Highlights - Words and actions intended to make another person feel seen, special and acknowledged. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2sa19t2qm1nzj7ayra6exr)) ^965288236 - Presence is about being in the moment with another person without being distracted by what's going on in your head or your surroundings. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2sk88w097bz8y3ge4ex551)) ^965288681 - By being enthusiastic, you have the ability to leave other people feeling good for having interacted with you. Your genuine smile can make someone's day. Even your unspoken appreciation for a shared moment of connection, no matter how brief, can often be felt. Lean into being the version of you who leaves other people with a smile on their face. And notice how much more magnetic you become. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2smsr1mq9qaf3eabg8ymd1)) ^965288743 - First is my personal favorite, and that is attentiveness or curiosity. So this looks like inviting connection by asking questions that inspire interesting conversations ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2sr1eps4mth9kb36mn1zz5)) ^965288898 - Next is compliments. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2srh55c77s89htn27p1c1h)) ^965288934 - Increase the effectiveness of your compliments by making them specific and sincere ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2svsawektr8ehjtg2r7pnz)) ^965289168 - Last but not least is the flirting style of playfulness. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2sz8p56h103q97xgrdyst1)) ^965289271 - Attentiveness, compliments, playfulness, there's nothing complicated about these actions, yet they have the potential to spark and sustain connection over time. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kc2sxdgtg1qy3dq1t1ynqemt)) ^965289229 #keypoint